So the O'lover just got his dream job! the one with the dental benefits and matching retirement fund. with a well-respected progressive firm that is loyal to their employees and wants O'lover to get his masters degree. and most importantly fits his definition of right livelihood.
It's like we're growing up?
and EVERYONE is so happy for him, nay, giddy as spiked punch. (they took us to tucanos to celebrate!)
i'm happy too. uh. but since i live in the opposites world, i'm also a bit like...reticent to give up hovering near the virtuous poverty level (the real poverty level, not the U.S. defined poverty level which to me is RICH...)
and now we'll be able to save a bit of $, pay off debts, and contribute to causes? still computing...
then there's the issue of his being gone. a lot. (he used to telecommute from home.) i'm rather attached to the O'lover. The word "co-dependent" comes to mind.
on the bright side... since i won't be Velcro-ed to O'lover's neck anymore...
maybe i'll have time to crochet...preferably like this:
aren't these house sweaters cool?